Corporate employee leaves anonymous negative review of coworker's book, coworker continually references 'mystery reviewer': 'She'd gotten some really challenging feedback'

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    A female businesswoman smiles as she flicks through a book she is holding while standing in an office hallway
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    I left an anonymous harsh review of my coworker's book two years ago and now I have to listen to her quote it in meetings

    She published it herself, like a proper self-published thing with a cover and everything, and she sent the whole team a link with this very excited email.
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    I read it because I felt like I had to. It was, fine. It was about productivity and habits and honestly pretty generic.
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    The kind of book where you can predict the next sentence before you read it. I don't know what came over me.
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    I left a review on Goodreads. Anonymous account I made specifically for this. I wasn't cruel but I wasn't soft either.
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    I said something like the core ideas felt borrowed and the author seemed more interested in sounding credible than actually saying something new.
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    A female employee texts on her phone while sitting in front of her laptop in the office
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    I said it read like someone who had read a lot of books about writing books and not quite made the jump to having their own voice yet.
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    I thought that was the end of it. It was not the end of it. About two months later she mentioned in a team meeting that she'd gotten some "really challenging feedback" that forced her to rethink her approach for the next project.
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    She read part of it out loud. It was my review. Word for word. She said it was the most useful thing anyone had said to her about her writing and she was genuinly grateful to whoever wrote it.
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    She has mentioned this mystery reviewer four times since then. Once she called them "brutaly honest in the best way." Last month she said the feedback changed how she thinks about her own voice as a writer.
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    I have sat there every single time and said nothing. I make a face that I hope reads as "hm, interesting" and not "that was me, I wrote that at 11pm on a Tuesday because | was mildly annoyed." I am never telling her.
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    It would ruin it somehow and also I'm a coward.
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    A female employee uses her phone while sitting in a hanging chair in the office
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    LoquatFriendly8027 been there with leaving anonymous feedback and then having to hear about it later, though never quite this level of awkward your coworker actually took the criticism well which is pretty rare - most people would've just gotten defensive and complained about trolls. the fact that she's using it to improve her writing is actually kind of cool even if you have to sit there pretending you don't know what she's talking about honestly though you did her a favor, even if it feels wei
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    Educational-End-7702 The highest form of respect for a creator is providing the cold truth they need to hear rather than the warm praise they want to receive, because while comfort feels better, only friction creates growth.
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    DickHopschteckler Your coworker seems... cool actually.
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    Jarboner69 While she might have taken it to heart she might also just be fishing for who it is. I did the same with a professor in college and she did the same thing looking for who it was.
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    Doneuter I once met a girl online and started seeing eachother. She self published a fiction novel. Everything seemed really nice including a very interesting cover. It looked super professional. I bought a copy to read despite her offering me a free copy. "I want to support your art!" I said having never read anything she had written. It was the worst thing I have ever read. So many misspellings and inconsistencies in the plot. It made things so awkward I ended up breaking things off with her b
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    Clandestinka These are the types of mild but interesting confessions I'm here for!
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    Ambiguousdude 100% a trap don't reveal yourself, since she would have only sent the initial link to a few people she knows who it could be lol
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    Sylvester0085 She knows

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